I got talked into a VALI plan a while ago. I pay the minimum I can--$135/month--and I'm trying to find out if I should dump it or not. I set out to get straight term life insurance since I have two kids, ages 2 and 3, but talked into a retirement account also. If I stop now, I lose everything I've contributed to date, so I'm hesitant to do that, although I understand it's better to stop now and lose a few thousand than to keep paying this forever. I'm 35, single, have a wonderful retirement plan through work (they pay 25% of my salary into a fully-vested account for me without my needing to contribute anything), and was looking for $500,000 in life insurance for the kids. I don't plan on carrying life insurance after the kids are post-college age, so I'm not sure if I can even drop this plan down at that point. What's the deal with these plans and why can't I seem to grasp the pros and cons of them? They seem very complicated to me and I don't understand the benefit of paying into it for the next 30 years.
Thanks in advance, S.