: Where it probably becomes tricky is when you happen to be good friends : with people you do business with. For instance, I think my father's : lawyer was someone he'd been friends with since childhood. I expect that : he gave informal legal advice off the books, and my father (who ran our : family's housewares business) probably gave him kitchenware (mostly from : the damaged/returns bin, where we also got much of our own housewares : from).
: But what distinguishes this from real barter is that there was no : specific compensation. There was no expectation that a particular bit of : legal advice would result in a certain number of pots and pans. They : both just gave each other what they needed when they needed it and felt : like it. That's what makes these gifts, not trade -- in a trade, you : generally agree on the compensation ahead of time, and you're expected : to follow through as agreed. There's either an explicit or implied : contract, and no such thing exists when friends just help each other out.
: -- : Barry Margolin : Arlington, MA
Where do things like baby sitting froups who sit for a kid in excchange for a similar amount of time of their sitting for you, or even more complicated ones where A may sit for b's baby and b may sit fo D's baby sot C now will sit for A's baby etc. sme ofthese groups can have fairly complicaed scheduling with not only hours but times of day o wek factored in.
Also food coops where you give a certain number of hours in return for a lower price on purchased food? Is the discount taxible income? or the average price of a baby siter times the hours you sat?
Wendy Baker