I was a widower with twin sons age 2 when I remarried in
2003. My second wife was divorced with a son age 4. In May of 2007, I was promoted and transferred from Indianapolis to Atlanta. She refused to relocate and we legally separated. The property settlement has me paying $500 per month against the home equity loan on an addition made to her house to accommodate me and my sons and it gives me a 30% lien on the house less the balance of the addition. I pay directly to the bank. I have my sons. She has her son. We had no children together. I say we can both file as unmarried heads of household. I also say I can deduct the interest on the home equity loan payments. The first two tax pros I interviewed say we'll both get audited if we do that and that the loan payments should be classified as non-dedcutible alimony. Am I out to lunch or are they?Jason