My son is going through a divorce, and he and his wife have one minor child. The lawyers are telling them that because they live in a 50-50 custody state, the normal approach when you have one child is for the decree to specify that the couple alternate years in which they claim the tax credits for the child. So, as an example, Parent 1 is allowed to claim the child in odd-numbered years and Parent 2 claims the child in even-numbered years. In essence, if is the parent’s “year”, they file as Unmarried Head of Household and take all child-related credits allowed and the other parent files as “Single” and gets no child related benefits.
I am wondering what the IRS thinks of all this and does this ever cause a problem for the divorced parties? Technically, my understanding is the IRS does not allow certain benefits unless you have custody of the child for more than half the year, but under 50-50 custody, the idea is that each parent gets the child exactly half the time. Now because most years have an odd number of days, it is likely one parent will have the child more days than the other just because of the way the calendar works out, but this won’t necessarily coincide with the odd year-even year provision in the decree. And because it is spelled out in the decree, most parents in this situation won’t even bother to keep track of the exact number of days. And that doesn't even address the fact that if it is a leap year, it is quite possible for the parties to have true 50-50 custody.
Is this really as simple and straightforward as it sounds? 50-50 custody has been around for a few years in many states, so I'm sure the tax pros here are familiar with it and with the idea of the alternating years. And is it as simple as saying the person whose year it is gets ALL child-related benefits and the other person does not?
Thanks in advance!