I suppose one of the beautiful things of these forums is the ability to disagree. But period-point-blank, if the industry of financial planning was not beneficial to the general public, the industry would not exist. To think that every financial planning firm is the same, and that the average Joe can not only beat out your average professional and do it in the most tax efficient manner, consistently, is a pipe dream. As for finding one that will help you more than themselves, there is an economics theory called "the invisible hand". It states that companies will find themselves doing the right thing because it benefits them, almost as though they were being guided to do the right thing by an invisible hand. If these companies could not return more than the average investor, THE COMPANIES WOULD NOT EXIST. No one would be referring their friends and family to "Joe, the guy who lost me a ton of money." As for this part:
"In this day of internet access to get a dealer invoice, and telephone to call around, I bought a car, new, off the lot. Three friends had the same car, an Avalon, so I didn't waste any time shopping around. This analogy is lost on me."
I can see that. You obviously shopped around on the internet and spoke with salesmen on the phone, and with your friends. The analogy I used wasn't designed to have the OP go to the office of every Financial Planner around, but to talk to other people and use the internet. There are firms and planners out there that will return higher than their fees, and higher that the average investor. That's just the truth. The important thing is to make sure that you do your due diligence and that you are comfortable with it. As for not getting real attention just because it's $50,000, and just getting a "cookie cutter" plan...that's laughable. To the OP: Look around, do some research and see what you are comfortable with. The best tool to use to gauge price and fees against return is on the NASD website here:
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