Boys, boys, boys!
About 2 or 3 times a year you get into these squabbles, which in some ways are fun to read ("let's watch you and him fight"), but REALLY, the things you say to each other are like little kids on a playground! Sharx, I thought you had moved on from this! I can't remember who else is in the mix, but you've been thru this so often that you stand out, so I'm not really picking on you, except for your low blow FO type retorts. Do any of you talk to people in person the same way ? I bet not!
As someone said, you can't convince anyone who has his mind made up that your way is better than his. It'd be nice, and sometimes it's very helpful, to see how others implement an approach in Quicken, and I personally love to read how people do different things to solve the same issue, but not everyone wants to be educated to the degree that you guys attempt or, more accurately, with the condemnatory approach you use. Believe me, I sure understand the joys of the "my way is best" philosphy and I've tried to ram my "policies" down a few people's throats and it always backfires. You gotta give up and be gracious at some point.
FYI, I have lots of direct withdrawals coming out of my Wachovia ->
Wells Fargo account and have never had an error. (I wish I had everything on direct withdrawal, but I've been lazy.) They don't come out early, but on the exact date due. Of course you check your bills! After all, you download these transactions into your accounts, so it has to be a reminder to cross check for reasonability at that point, if not before. That said, I had not thought of the idea of charging recurring payments to my credit card, as some are doing. That would centralize expense payments even more than I've done, and might have other benefits that I haven't thought of before.
I also am not paying anything for Quicken (but am not using Bill Pay), probably because I had a Crown Classic account before.
Re brokers: Prior to 2009, my broker at Smith Barney was not doing a good job, but I didn't know enough to understand exactly what I didn't like besides lack of performance. I had an inheritance sitting with my father's old broker, at the same company in another state, and pulled everything out to go with her. My dad didn't suffer fools at all, so I felt she was at least competent. I know the market has gone up, and it's hard to tease apart that increase from her performance, but I am much happier with her choices. She goes for transparency: no mutual funds, no unit trusts.no ETFs or Reits so far. Every security, except for the left over ones from the old broker, on the statement, is something I can identify, understand, monitor, etc. She is conservative, maybe too much, but spends an inordinate amount of time discussing everything with me, even if it might be considered minutia. My accounts have recovered from 2008, and are also spinning off more income. They are diversified in ways I would never have considered, and she understands investing in ways I would never in a million years have learned (and don't want to deal with). I don't know how she makes a lot of money (which I'm sure she does) given how much time she spends talking to me and and my sister, and we are small potatoes compared to her other clients (no, she does not name them, just uses their situations or portfolios as examples). What she has picked has been appropriate. Nothing world beating, nothing awful. Is she the best 'stock' picker in the world? Probably not. She's certainly not a gambler. I just know that she isn't gauging me, is thoughtful, understandable, and has created order out of the chaos of years past. So there's my position on brokers. Some are horrible, some are good, and the rest fall in the middle.
Let's all kiss and make up now, ok?