You ARE - or at least will be - forced to use chip and pin, as no sane retailer is going to want to bear the costs of fraud.
Chip and pin will apply to debit as well as credit cards. You're saying you don't want the ability to get money out of a cashpoint machine or cashback in a supermarket?
Interstingly, I have several times told my bank I want a limit of £100 a week from a cashpoint machine and every so often they put it back to £250, or £100 a day or something. I can't prove I've asked them to reduce the limit as it's always been done over the phone (I think), and it would be interesting to see if the bank will cover any losses over my requested limit should I ever be a victim of this sort of crime.
It's a shame that I cannot request a higher level of security. I have a good memory (and anyway, it's not hard to come up with questions which I could be asked at a cashpoint to which only I would know the answer without having to learn new numbers - pets or distant relatives names, for instance).